Monday, November 13, 2006

HBS vs. HLS

Harvard Business School("HBS") parties and boys, in my opinion, are soooo much more fascinating than Harvard Law School ("HLS") boys. Why? Because they are generally much more older, therefore much more mature. With maturity and experience comes this gesture that shows self confidence, in a standard that is much more higher than any HLS boys could exude (ok, maybe not all of them are like that, but mostly are). Besides that, studying business and economy makes them much more aware to the world and social changes, whereas law students are much more technical and rigid. Above all that, HBS boys just dress so much better- with their stripes shirt that looks so yummy...And generally, HBS boys are much more patient, outgoing, and funny. Law students are much more exclusive and secluded, with all their cliques and ganks- whereas business school people seems to have high ability to adapt with any circumstances and situations.

Therefore, it is only reasonable to hang out with HBS guys than HLS guys. And my prediction was proven to be true when i went to HBS parties. Every guy is sooooo nice and funny. Not to mention that since i was invited by the El presidente of the section, i seem to be introduced to every single living male in the whole club. What i like most about them are their honesty. As much as they like to flirt, they would always admit whether they are engaged or in a relationship- which strikes me as something very rare to be found in America (or maybe because i have been hanging out with jerks and commitment phobic waaaay toooo much). That nite i hang out with seven newly engaged guys that were so in love with their fiancee. And I actually had soooo much fun. Clubbing does not necessarily mean that I have to hang out with my skimpy outfit, bumping and grinding with guys who are trying to hit me. Clubbing seems to be a safe place to meet up and actually have fun with friends- and not necessarily to be followed with sex afterwards. Clubbing suddenly is not a scary thing, with safe network and comfortable friends.

What i love more about these HBS guys are how our conversation seems to be flowing, since my background are mostly with business, company and finance. These are mature men who are not looking for a hot chick just for a one night stand. These are men who are not looking for meaningless sex, since they already get enough of it in their adolescent time. These are people who values woman from their intelligence, personality and compatibility. These are people who are looking for a commonality in vision and meaningful conversation, and are not interested to be acquinted with next door-shallow college girls.

Perhaps that's the reason why there are stacks of business cards and phone numbers next to me now....Thanks for inviting me to such a wonderful crowd, El Presidente. All your friends are so charming, and I can't wait for another party invitation!!!

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