Friday, December 15, 2006

looks

people make judgments based on how other people looks. people have impression of what other person is like based on what they see. it becomes hard when people have a certain stereotype of who and what you are like.

it is hard for me, at least, because a lot of people have their perception about me.

1. with my gucci bags and designer sunglasses, people tend to think i am high maintenance. perhaps it is true. but if i bought all of them and never asked my parents to buy it- who am i being high maintenance to? i actually have my designer handbags and sunglasses because i am low maintenance- these handbags and sunglasses are usually classic and last for a long time. So who's being high maintenance now?

2. a man called me a cockteaser-another thought i was a stripper- while other think that i am such a brave person to express my sexuality. i don't think any of that is true. throughout my life, i only wear skin revealing clothes- if i feel safe. usually if i am around people that i trust- like leo or bobby. i sincerely do not have any intention to be a cock teaser. to tell the truth, i still feel uncomfortable with the dresses i wear- i guess it is just not easy when you have been covering yourself up for 10 years of your life- and the moment you reveal your skin every man thinks you desperately are seeking for sex.

3. a lot of people think that i am so put together because i coordinate whatever i wear, and don't wear the same thing for two days in a row. to this, i attest that it is not true. i don't fold and coordinate my stuff. i either give them for charity, resell them, or simply throw them away. my room is the messiest thing on earth. i think i did a pretty good job convincing other people that i am so put together.

4. one true thing is..the messier i am-the more thinking i am doing.

lastly...everyone says that with me, the old adage of "don't judge a book by it's cover" truly applies.

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